When you have realized what you want, do not stop, dig even deeper. Is this your goal? Is that what you want? Maybe your mom wants this, the environment or other people’s voices impose their own?
Are you sure you really want it? Choosing and setting the right goal is half the battle and the basis for a successful outcome. Let’s analyze the criteria for correctness.
It is not enough to set the goal of “having your own place”. It is necessary to describe the nuances in as much detail as possible, otherwise, discrepancies are possible. The apartment seems to have appeared, there is a place to live, but it is not yours, you cannot dispose of it as you please. This apartment is not the same size, in the wrong city, this is not an apartment, but a room in someone’s house. Is the goal achieved? Yes. Is this what you wanted? Not.
Let’s say your goal is to become a popular blogger. Thanks to social media, there is a simple and specific sign of popularity – a large number of followers. If you are at a loss to determine this number for yourself, look at how many subscribers the person you think is popular has, take this number as a guide.
As one boss used to say, ask for the impossible and get the most. Set yourself ambitious goals, want to jump over your head with your heart, believe in yourself, and then land and take into account objective reality. It makes no sense to set yourself the goal of growing a third hand.